what to do if your vagina is too wet

April 09, 2022 Post a Comment

Dear Dr West

I feel like I become also wet during sex. I've tried using condoms to increase friction, just that doesn't work. It feels like this situation is decreasing sensation for both of united states, fifty-fifty though he hasn't said anything. What tin I do?

This is one of those things that a lot of women don't discuss due to shame and stigma, so the true extent is ofttimes unknown. Then firstly, cheers for reaching out. Talking about a sexual problem can be very hard for a lot of people, but information technology'due south besides the start stride on the path to fixing it.

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There is lots of information on the reverse problem of not enough lubrication, which is often a quicker fix of ownership some body safe lube and going from at that place. Even so, remainder assured that there are solutions for your trouble.

The vagina and vulva are like finely tuned engines, and the fluids produced keep the whole operation running smoothly. Sometimes this delicate procedure tin be upset past a number of factors, from medication, synthetic underwear, douching (do Not douche within your vagina unless yous desire a yeast infection), bacterial vaginosis, historic period, stress, and so much more than.

Unlike types of birth control may also play a office, so this could be something to speak to your GP or Well Woman clinic about.

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Two glands produce lubrication: Bartholin glands (these are found on each side of the archway to the vagina) and the Skene glands (these are constitute close to the urethra, almost an inch or so from the entrance to the vagina). Lubrication comes from vaginal mucus and vaginal sweating- aye, your vagina can sweat!

In the case of excess lubrication, sex therapist Aoife Drury (drurytherapy.com) advises that as with any physiological concerns, a trip to the GP is worth information technology to dominion out any underlying health bug.

She stresses the importance of remembering that everyone is different, and everyone has a variation in sexual responses, which is perfectly normal. People volition naturally produce dissimilar amounts of lubrication.

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Aoife also believes that communication with your partner is key, as this can aid both of yous to be on the same page, and this transparency can assist alleviate feet. The additional benefit of this helps remove shame and silence, and can bring you closer.

One solution that might piece of work for you is trying out different positions, as dissimilar angles change sensations and depth. Aoife recommends trying lying on your front with your legs closed, as this can create more friction.

You could too endeavor stopping and wiping off with a towel you continue shut by. The advice can help you to interact on finding different positions that piece of work for you both.

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Some other pick is medication. Samantha Evans, sexual wellness and pleasure expert from jodivine.com, offers this advice: 'Antihistamines help to dry up actress lubrication. If the woman is having penetrative sexual practice with a partner with a penis, they could wear a constriction band to make them feel bigger so she can feel them'.

Constriction rings- also known as erect rings- come in many forms, and some vibrate as well. A fiddling vibration tin can add a lot of extra fun so this could be a fun choice to try out.

Sex therapist Janet Brito has written an excellent commodity on this topic which is well worth the read. This commodity offers possible explanations, and when to encounter a doctor (e.chiliad. whatsoever smells or color in discharge).

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Cocky-acceptance of how your trunk works also plays a role, and while this is a process for a lot of people, self-acceptance can bring a lot of joy and happiness. Skillful ingredients for a happy sex life!

Dr. Caroline W is a lecturer in sexuality studies, host of the Glow Westward podcast, and a pleasure advocate. She is passionate about creating spaces for calm, informed conversations about sexual activity, and wants to banish shame and stigma from the chamber. Read more virtually her piece of work at www.iamcarolinewest.com

If you have whatever sex-related questions for Dr. W, send them in via email to info@evoke.ie.

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